Why Don’t You Have a Girlfriend?
This article on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend is a great opportunity to do the infamous “10 Reasons Why” headline, which is a major clickbait in the blogging community.
But to be honest, I can’t write 10 Reasons why you don’t have a girlfriend or 10 steps to get a girlfriend BECAUSE IT DOESN’T WORK LIKE THAT!
No one can summarize that in 10 steps. I can dedicate this whole blog just on the topic of getting a girlfriend.
Because you probably aren’t doing that good with girls in the first place. To get good, you will have to learn how to attract girls, how to spark up conversations on the fly, how to create comfort and rapport between the two of you, etc.
In short, YOU WILL HAVE TO DO SOME MAJOR CHANGES TO FIX THIS ISSUE!
Another important reason is, IT IS NEVER THAT SINGLE TECHNIQUE OR THAT SINGLE TRICK THAT WILL MAGICALLY MAKE ALL THE GIRLS FALL FOR YOU OR SOLVE ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS!
Anyway, let us take a look at some of the reasons why you don’t have a girlfriend.
The Main Reasons Why You Don’t Have A Girlfriend
Society Screwed up your brain way too much.
You spend your time watching pure fiction on T.V Shows and Movies.
You spend your time on facebook watching a fake portrait of a life that no one actually ever lived, it is just within the flash of the camera that people pretended to be happy, smiling and living the life you always dreamed of.
This screws up your perception of reality and how life is like for other people.
Long story short, IT IS NOTHING LIKE THE MOVIES! IT IS NOTHING LIKE THE PICTURES ON FACEBOOK.
THESE ARE JUST THE HIGHLIGHTS OF AN ENTIRE LIFETIME.
You think you have to be James Bond look-alike with a DB9 parked outside to get a decent girl, believing that girls will never ever want you because you are nice and not a bad boy. You think you lack this and that so it will never work for you.
Do you have to be any of that to get a girlfriend?
To start off, James Bond, if he exists in real life, is so creepy that even guys won’t hang out with him. Just watch a James Bond movie again and try to filter all the cool angles and unnecessary cuts, imagine that character in real life getting groceries… Smooth is definitely not the word that will come to mind.
Plus, the latest James Bond “Daniel Craig” is not the best-looking guy on earth, he doesn’t even compete, yet he has a massive appeal and his SMV is so freakishly High!
Because of the aura surrounding him, his confidence, and his fame.
You can recreate all of these without being an A-list celebrity, this is an advanced topic and I will write about it in the near future.
If you depend on your car to get you girls, it will attract all sort of girls that you don’t want in your life.
Again this is not a movie THIS IS
Sparta? REAL LIFE.
You probably never met a golddigger, you use your imagination/what you saw in movies to imagine what they might be like.
You are far from the truth. They can seriously RUIN your life.
Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend!
But still, James bond is a bad boy and girls love bad boys, and you are a nice guy!
1- You are not a nice guy.
You are afraid, lack balls and simply spineless.
That sentence alone summarizes exactly Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend.
Here is how it goes,
There are no nice people, it is a tactic, a behavior that all the “nice guys” adapt in order to get what they want. It would be very hard to fully explain this now, so I will save it for another article.
2- Women don’t love “evil men” they love bad boys.
You are probably thinking of a criminal when you are daydreaming about being one of the bad boys.
In movies, it works like that, but not in real life.
Women love edgy men, ballsy men, and men living outside of the matrix.
That is best conveyed by being a “bad boy”.
And this will take us to the next point of why you don’t have a girlfriend.
You think that all women want, think and react the same way to the same things.
NO, they are as individually unique as men. Women have a wide range of personalities and every single one of them wants something different from the other.
Some women love Brad Pitt, some hate him. Same with Justin Bieber, George Clooney… etc.
No single human will ever appeal to everyone.
No matter how bad your current situation is – you can still change it, stop with the pathetic excuses – there exists a girl that found, finds or will find you attractive. That Is A Fact. I have been with models that used to think that nerdy, fat guys are attractive because of the idea of her being his trophy girlfriend and making everyone jealous of him.
Long story short, There Exists Someone For Everyone.
You have to put yourself out there and (try – fail – repeat) until you get this area of your life fixed. This is a great journey for a man to take.
Women do add a great deal of quality to a man’s life.
Approaching women on the street is not as terrifying as you might think. Girls are shyer than you think.
WOMAN ARE MUCH MORE DOWN TO EARTH AND FRIENDLY THAN YOU THINK.
And this will take us to another point…
You have no idea what girls really want!
Plain and simple.
Outside of lesbians or Asexual girls, a normal down to earth girl wants a guy.
Not a ripped, rich, tall, famous guy.
Just a guy.
To a girl, what matters most is how you make her feel rather than what you actually are. Yes, almost every girl will list the former when asked what type of guys she wants, but that is a point for another article.
Now, once you really understand THAT YOU ARE ENOUGH. You will see how girls are simple, they just want a guy that will compliment who they really are.
In the word “Compliment” lies the answer to the questions dwelling in your mind just about now.
“But what about the girls that only date tall, famous guys?“
Well, most girls will mention that but won’t really mean it, to be discussed in a later article.
But, there are SOME high-status girls who actually got a set of rules about who they will ever let into their lives.
Do I agree with this?
It is just a reality we live in. Now these girls have such high demand due to being exposed to a wide variety of high valued men. AND THESE GIRLS ARE SO DAMN RARE!
Which takes is to the next point on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend
You Treat Every Girl like She Is A Victoria Secret Model.
Stop treating every girl like she is the only one on earth or the only one for you.
The world is FULL of amazing girls, you can easily find another one!
Stop treating girls like they are these angelic beings that can’t do any harm and are the unicorns of humanity. Girls are just like Boys, they live and die, they are insecure and anxious about stuff, they lack skills and confidence in some stuff, they get into phases where they feel alone and un-sexy. THEY ARE HUMANS AFTER ALL.
And you as the guy need to support and assist your girl as she is also supposed to assist and support you so both of you can work on making the other person grow and better themselves while they also take care of one’s self.
You are also a normal human being, you are not some special snowflake, no matter how many times your mom had told you that, after all, YOU ARE JUST A HUMAN BEING.
Which takes us to the next point on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend
You Have High Expectation.
Now, when this is mentioned usually it means the following:
“If you are the fat, ugly guy then do not expect anything more than a fat, ugly girl.”
This does hold some tiny little bit of truth, but it is not what I meant by lowering your expectations.
I mean it as gets in touch with reality in your expectation, and that holds and exceeds the physicals. As the above-mentioned scenario of an ugly guy can only get an ugly girl, this is kind of true not due to “ugliness” itself but rather because of What You Bring To The Table.
Here is another reality check for you:
Other than your mom, NO ONE WILL LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY!
Unconditional love simply doesn’t exist, and it is what fucks up most relationships, One part will take the other part of the relationship for granted and stop being or doing what they were loved for and thus the relationship will just fall apart.
Now, I am probably THE WORST guy ever to give advice’s on long-term relationships, it is not really my thing. But I surely can tell you what will 100% cause a relationship to fail.
The concept of what you bring to the table is a very long and complicated subject so I will just leave it for another article!
For now, think of a hot girl and a rich guy,
beyond jealousy, ethics, and the validity of such a relationship.
It is clearly based on the girl bringing beauty and the guy bringing money and the freedom with it.
That is the simplest way to get an idea of what you can actually bring to the table to build a healthy and long-lasting relationship.
Now, after asking yourself what will you bring to the table, you will be smashed with a desperate wave of nothingness with an echo of a shattered self-esteem.
And this lovely – insert evil smile – reaction will lead us to our next reason on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend:
You Think Looks, Money And Fame Are All There Is.
Actually, They Don’t Really Matter!
They do, but they don’t!
There are SO MANY VARIABLES to why two people will be attracted to each other.
Attraction has a zillion variable that includes looks, money, fame, confidence, humor… etc. But attraction is not determined by one variable or the other, it is simply a mixture of everything, and that mixture should compliment the other party in the relationship.
Now, ALL of these are up to you, you can improve every single aspect of yourself including your looks. But we rather say that it is out of our control than to be faced with the truths of our shameful laziness and lack of will.
And that will take us to our next point on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend:
Even you won’t date yourself.
You are living a life ruled by fear and lack of ambition, your life revolves around skipping through your days hypnotized by society’s useless mini pleasures. You got nothing much going on for you in life, other than that WOW tournament. Your only friends are your mom and the internet. You have zero experience in the practical life and lack any sense of cleanness and personal hygiene.
And then you shamelessly complain how girls don’t show any interest in you because you are short… Really?!
Out of all the bullshit you are living through that you can easily change and improve, you picked the only thing that is hard to change and start complaining about it!?
And there exists an even worse creature that thinks he is entitled to girls because he is simply nice – being nice doesn’t mean any fucking thing, everyone is nice – and how girls are stupid because they choose douchebags instead.
I don’t know where to begin, should I begin by telling you that you are not really nice, you are just spineless and afraid, or should I comment on how it is very much the sane choice for a girl to choose a guy who takes care of himself, stands up for what he needs and wants and takes no shame in it, can easily protect her and have tons of life experience, let alone connections and friend.
You think that is a stupid choice?!
What is wrong with you?
Do you think being a successful “Douchebag” -lol- is easy?
Can you stand up for yourself? Stare down another man that is threatening you? Defend yourself even in the face of physical violence? Can you walk up to a girl you like and be honest about your intentions?
Most of the people reading this would have already closed this page, too much “reality” is coming their way and they simply can’t handle it. They would rather go back to being oblivious to this side of life and keep on playing the victim role than to be faced with such brutal reality.
For those of you who are still here, Hats off Gentlemen.
To be honest, this is mostly not your fault, you were oblivious to too many facts of this life by the fiction they are feeding us through the media. The good news is, all what you think is wrong with you can be fixed and can be fixed easily. You have an unlimited “mostly free” resources that are here to help you grow as a human. You can find an ongoing knowledge here at MySupremacy.com or spread across the internet. Google It!
Now this will take us to our last point for today, I know there still a lot more to write, but we will have to save it for another day.
Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend?
Your knowledge sources are full of shit and they are throwing you off track.
I find it fascinatingly stupid for average guys to sit around in a mediocre forum discussing how they will die virgins. How all of them will come back to such a place to consume more and more of such negative energy!
Seriously, WHAT THE HELL!?
Don’t listen to anyone who is not killing it in life. If someone isn’t a master of what he preaches, take his words with a grain of salt.
Always experiment with what you have learned, trial and error is the master of all teachers.
Try to get a mentor!
If you know a guy that is kicking it in life, then learn from him.
Forget about all the generic articles you found splattered online, those “how to get this and that in 10 steps…”, 99% of them are complete nonsense.
Yet, the internet is full of awesome people sharing their experiences, Find Them.
Why Don’t I Have A Girlfriend?
- Think that you have to be a movie star, or ripped, rich and famous to get a girlfriend.
- Think that all women want the same type of guys and that type is magically not you.
- Have no idea what a woman really wants in a man.
- Treat every girl like she is the scarcest diamond there is.
- Think looks and money are all That matters.
- Have unreasonably high expectations.
- Got nothing going on for you.
- Take advice from the wrong people.
- Think you are entitled to things just because you are nice.
- Lack of the spine and the will to change your situation.
I know that this article on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend will piss off, even more, feminists and white knights who never get tired of sending out E-mails on how we at Mysupremacy.com are teaching guys how to be manipulative, use girls for pleasure, etc.
We do exactly the opposite. If we leave men clueless about their sexuality and how to handle it, we will have a world of frustration. If we leave men clueless to how they can better themselves as men and connect with women the right way, we will end up with a world filled with sexism.
Lack of understanding creates confusion, Confusion creates hate and hate… well, it creates all sorts of trouble we don’t want.
I will post some pictures of my daily life and adventures.
And I will post some stuff aimed to inspire and motivate you fuckers to go out there and make it!