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Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend?

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This article on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend is a great opportunity to do the infamous “10 Reasons Why” headline, which is a major clickbait in the blogging community.

But to be honest, I can’t write 10 Reasons why you don’t have a girlfriend or 10 steps to get a girlfriend BECAUSE IT DOESN’T WORK LIKE THAT!

No one can summarize that shit in 10 steps… I can dedicate this whole Blog just on the topic of getting a girlfriend.

Why?

Because you probably aren’t that well with girls in the first place, you will have to learn how to get attraction from girls, how to spark up conversations on the fly, how to create comfort and rapport betwenn the two of you, so in short, YOU WILL HAVE TO DO MAJOR CHANGES TO FIX THIS ISSUE. 

And most importantly because, IT IS NEVER THAT SINGLE TECHNIQUE OR THAT SINGLE TRICK THAT WILL MAGICALLY MAKE ALL THE GIRLS FALL FOR YOU OR SOLVE ALL OF YOUR PROBLEMS!

After finishing this article, I found out that it is nearly impossible to write all the reasons why you don’t have a girlfriend…

So here are the Main reasons why you don’t have a girlfriend.

The Main Reasons Why You Don’t Have A Girlfriend ARE:

  • Society Screwed up your brain way too much.

You spend your time watching pure fiction on T.V Shows and Movies.

You spend your time on facebook watching a fake portrait of a life that no one actually ever lived, it is just within the flash of the camera that people pretended to be happy, smiling and living the life you always dreamed of.

This screws up your perception of reality and how life is like for other people.

Long story short, IT IS NOTHING LIKE THE MOVIES! IT IS NOTHING LIKE THE PICTURES ON FACEBOOK.

THESE ARE JUST THE HIGLIGHTES OF AN ENTIRE LIFETIME.

You think you have to be James Bond look-alike with a DB9 parked outside to get a decent girl. You think that girls will never want you because you are nice and not a bad boy. You think you lack this and that so it won’t work for you.

Do you have to be any of that to get a girlfriend?

Fuck NO!

To start off, James Bond, if he exists in real life, is so FUCKING creepy that even guys won’t hang out with him. Just watch a James Bond movie again and try to filter all the cool angles and unnecessary cuts, imagine that character in real life getting groceries… it won’t work.

Plus, the latest James Bond “Daniel Craig” is not the best-looking guy on earth, he doesn’t even compete, yet he has a massive sexual appeal and his sexual market value is so freakishly High!

Why?

Because of the aura surrounding him, his confidence, and his fame.

You can recreate all these without being an A-list celebrity, this is an advanced topic and I will write about it in the near future.

If you depend on your car to get you girls, it will attract all sort of girls that you don’t want in your life.

Again this is not a movie THIS IS Sparta? REAL LIFE.

You probably never met a golddigger, so you use your imagination/what you saw in movies to imagine what they might be like.

You are far from the truth. They can seriously RUIN your life.

Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend!

But still, James bond is a bad boy and girls love bad boys, and you are a nice guy!

Why You Don't Have a Girlfriend

1- You are not a nice guy.

You are afraid, lack balls and simply spineless.

That sentence alone summarizes exactly Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend.

Here is how it goes,

There are no nice people, it is a tactic, a behavior that all the “nice guys” adapt in order to get what they want. It would be very hard to fully explain this now, so I will save it for another article.

2- Women don’t love “evil men” they love bad boys.

You are probably thinking of a criminal when you are daydreaming about being one of the bad boys.

In movies, it works like that, but not in real life.

Women love edgy men, ballsy men, and men living outside of the matrix.

That is best conveyed by being a “bad boy”.

And this will take us to the next point of why you don’t have a girlfriend.

  • You think that all women want, think and react the same way to the same things.

NO, they are as individually unique as men. Women have a wide range of personalities and every single one of them wants something different from the other.

There are some universally attractive traits, like confidence and humor, that attracts the general bulk of women, but there is no single human that all women fall for.

Some women love Brad Pitt, some hate him. Same with Justin Bieber, George Clooney… etc.

No single human will ever appeal to everyone.

No matter how shitty your current situation is you can still change it, stop with the pathetic excuses there exists a girl that found, finds or will find you attractive. That Is A Fact. I have been with models that used to think that nerdy, fat guys are attractive because of the idea of her being his trophy girlfriend and making everyone jealous of him.

Long story short, There Exists Someone For Everyone.

You have to put yourself out there and (try – fail – repeat) until you get this area of your life fixed. This is a great journey for a man to take. 

Women do add a great deal of quality to a man’s life.

Approaching women on the street is not as terrifying as you might think. Girls are shyer than you think.  

WOMAN ARE MUCH MORE DOWN TO EARTH AND FRIENDLY THAN YOU THINK.

And this will take us to another point…

  • You have no idea what girls really want! 

Guys. 

Plain and simple. 

Outside of lesbians and Asexual girls, a normal down to earth girl wants a guy. 

Not a ripped, rich, tall, famous guy.

Just a guy. 

To a girl, what matters most is how you make her feel rather than what you actually are. Yes, almost every girl will list the former when asked what type of guys she wants, but that is a point for another article. 

Now, once you really understand THAT YOU ARE ENOUGH. You will see how girls are simple, they just want a guy that will compliment who they really are. 

In the word “Compliment” lies the answer to the questions dwelling in your mind just about now. 

But what about the girls that only date tall, famous guys?

Well, most girls will mention that but won’t really mean it, to be discussed in a later article. 

But, there are SOME high-status girls who actually got a set of rules about who they will ever let into their lives.

Do I agree with this? 

FUCK NO! 

It is just a reality we live in. Now these girls have such high demand due to being exposed to a wide variety of high valued men.  AND THESE GIRLS ARE SO DAMN RARE! 

Which takes is to the next point on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend

 

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  • You Treat Every Girl like She Is A Victoria Secret Model. 

Stop treating every girl like she is the only one on earth or the only one for you.

The world is FULL of amazing girls, you can easily find another one! 

Stop treating girls like they are these angelic beings that can’t do any harm and are the unicorns of humanity. Girls are just like Boys, they live and die, they are insecure and anxious about stuff, they lack skills and confidence in some stuff, they get into phases where they feel alone and un-sexy. THEY ARE HUMANS AFTER ALL

And you as the guy need to support and assist your girl as she is also supposed to assist and support you so both of you can work on making the other person grow and better themselves while they also take care of one’s self.

You are also a normal human being, you are not some special snowflake, no matter how many times your mom had told you that, after all, YOU ARE JUST A HUMAN BEING


Which takes us to the next point on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend

  • You Have High Expectation. 

Now, when this is mentioned usually it means the following: 

If you are the fat, ugly guy then do not expect anything more than a fat, ugly girl.”

This does hold some tiny little bit of truth, but it is not what I meant by lowering your expectations.  

I mean it as get in touch with reality in your expectation, and that holds and exceeds the physicals. As the above-mentioned scenario of an ugly guy can only get an ugly girl, this is kind of true not due to “ugliness” itself but rather because of What You Bring To The Table

Here is another reality check for you:

Other than your mom, NO ONE WILL LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY! 

Unconditional love simply doesn’t exist, and it is what fucks up most relationships, One part will take the other part of the relationship for granted and stop being or doing what they were loved for and thus the relationship will just fall apart. 

Now, I am probably THE WORST guy ever to give advice’s on long-term relationships, it is not really my thing. But I surely can tell you what will 100% cause a relationship to fail.  

The concept of what you bring to the table is a very long and complicated subject so I will just leave it for another article! 

For now, think of a hot girl and a rich guy,

beyond jealousy, ethics, and the validity of such relationship.

It is clearly based on the girl bringing beauty and the guy bringing money and the freedom with it. 

That is the simplest way to get an idea of what you can actually bring to the table to build a healthy and long lasting relationship.

Now, after asking yourself what will you bring to the table, you will be smashed with a desperate wave of nothingness with an echo of a shattered self-esteem. 

And this lovely – insert evil smile – reaction will lead us to our next reason on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend:

Why You Don't Have a Girlfriend

  • You Think Looks, Money And Fame Are All There Is.

Actually, They Don’t Really Matter! 

They do, but they don’t!

There are SO MANY VARIABLES to why two people will be attracted to each other. 

Attraction has a zillion variable that includes looks, money, fame, confidence, humor… etc. But attraction is not determined by one variable or the other, it is simply a mixture of everything, and that mixture should compliment the other party in the relationship. 

Now, ALL of these are up to you, you can improve every single aspect of yourself including your looks. But we rather say that it is out of our control than to be faced with the truths of our shameful laziness and lack of will

And that will take us to our next point on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend:

Why You Don't Have a Girlfriend

  • You won’t even date yourself. 

You are living a life ruled by fear and lack of ambitions, you just skip through your days hypnotized by what society has provided and all their useless mini pleasure. You got nothing going on for you in life, other than that WOW tournament. Your only friends are your mom and the internet. You have zero experience in the practical life and lack any sense of cleanness and personal hygiene.

And then you shamelessly complain how girls don’t show any interest in you because you are short… Really?! 

Out of all the bullshit you are living through that you can easily change and improve, you picked the only thing that is hard to change and start complaining about it!?

And there exist an even worse creature that thinks he is entitled to girls because he is simply nice – being nice doesn’t mean any fucking thing, everyone is nice – and how girls are stupid because they choose douchebags instead.


I don’t know where to begin, should I begin by telling you that you are not really nice, you are just spineless and afraid, or should I comment on how it is very much the sane choice for a girl to choose a guy who takes care of himself, stands up for what he needs and wants and takes no shame in it, can easily protect her and have tons of life experience, let alone connections and friend.

You think that is a stupid choice?! 

What the fuck is wrong with you?

Do you think being a successful “Douchebag” -lol- is easy?

Can you stand up for yourself? Can you stare down another man that is threatening you? Can you defend yourself even in the face of physical violence? Can you walk up to a girl you like and be honest about your intentions?

Probably not.

Most of the people reading this would have already closed this page, too much “reality” is coming their way and they simply can’t handle it. They would rather go back to being oblivious to this side of life and keep on playing the victim role than to be faced with such brutal reality. 

For those of you who are still here, Hats off Gentlemen. 

To be honest, this is mostly not your fault, you were oblivious to too many facts of this life by the fiction they are feeding us through the media. The good news is, all what you think is wrong with you can be fixed and can be fixed easily. You have an unlimited “mostly free” resources that are here to help you grow as a human. You can find an ongoing knowledge here at MySupremacy.com or spread across the internet. Google It! 

Now this will take us to our last point for today, I know there still a lot more to write, but we will have to save it for another day. 

Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend?

Why You Don't Have a Girlfriend

  • Your knowledge sources are full of shit and they are throwing you off track. 

I find it fascinatingly stupid for average dudes to sit around in a mediocre forum discussing how they will die virgins, and all of them will come back to such place to consume more and more of such negative energy! 

Seriously, WHAT THE FUCK!?

Don’t listen to anyone who is not killing it in this life, If someone is not a master of what he is preaching, take his words with a grain of salt.

Always experiment with what you have learned, trial and error is the master of all teachers.

Try to get a mentor!

If you know a guy that is kicking it in life, then learn from him.

Forget about all the generic articles you found splattered online, those “how to get this and that in 10 steps…”, 99% of them are complete nonsense. 

Yet, the internet is full of awesome people sharing their experiences, Find Them

Conclusion: 

Why You Don’t Have A Girlfriend?

  1. You Think That You Have To Be A Movie Star, Or a Ripped, Rich And Famous Dude to get a girlfriend.
  2. You Think That All Women Want The Same Type of Guys and That Type Is Magically Not You.
  3. You Have No Idea What A Women Really Wants In A Man.
  4. You Treat Every Girl Like She Is The Scarcest Diamond.
  5. You Think Looks And Money Are All There Is
  6. You Have High Expectations.
  7. You Got Nothing Going On For You.
  8. You Take Advice From The Wrong People.
  9. You Think You Are Entitled To Things Just Because You Are Nice.
  10. You Lack Balls And Will To Change Your Situation. You are simply afraid to go out and Meet Beautiful Women.

 

Closing: 

I know that this article on Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend will piss off even more feminists and white knights who never get tired of sending out E-mails on how we at mysupremacy.com are teaching guys how to be manipulative, use girls for sex, etc.

We Don’t.

We do exactly the opposite. If we leave men clueless about their sexuality and how to handle it, clueless to how they can better themselves as men and connect with women in a way where they both help each other contribute to this world in a better way, we will end up with a world filled with sexism.

Lack of understanding creates confusion, Confusion creates hate and hate… well, it creates all sorts of trouble we don’t want.

Also, I will be more active on Instagram along with all social media networks in the upcoming weeks. 

I will post some pictures from my daily life and adventures. 

And I will post some stuff aimed to inspire and motivate you fuckers to go out there and make it! 

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That was it for today Gentlemen, That is more than enough reasons to Why You Don’t Have a Girlfriend.

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John Deus

97 Comments

  1. Avery Avery

    I fucking love you.

    • John Deus John Deus

      You’re Fucking Welcome!

      Well thanks for the heads up DanielC

      • jaredmata jaredmata

        Does this work for thirteen years old

        • Prince_Mahe Prince_Mahe

          What about trail and error method

    • ReallyTheTruth ReallyTheTruth

      Well Gee Wiz, could it really just be with the kind of women that we have out there now really be the real reason? Oh Absolutely.

  2. Sigurd Sigurd

    I like your humor, saying that 99% of 10-step-guides are wrong and then litterally summing this up in 10 steps really got to me, I must’ve laughed for a good minute.

    • John Deus John Deus

      Sigurd,
      There is a difference between 10-steps and 10-points Summary.
      If you do not know the difference between a step and a point, that is something outside of my profession, but you should seek help.
      Regards,
      J.Deus

  3. CAPTAIN CAPTAIN

    Damn , my thoughts exactly after seeing her . Gonna talk to her tomorrow. Thanks man!

    • John Deus John Deus

      Glad to help.
      Talk to her, do not be needy, be chill.
      and she is surely happy to talk to you, Captain.
      Regards,
      J.Deus

  4. Freddie Freddie

    I swear this is the best article on the subject I’ve ever read. I’m not looking for anyone right now per say but you’re so absolutely on point that I’m laughing and thinking like a mad hatter.

    • John Deus John Deus

      glad to help!
      regards,
      J.Deus

  5. A real feminist A real feminist

    Spot on.
    I just wanted to add one thing. Love and respect yourself, or nobody else ever will.

    • John Deus John Deus

      I am not sure if you are a real feminist or just for adding humor,
      either way, thank you and yes first you have to “love” yourself so people could love you.
      If you are actually a feminist then congratulations! You are the first feminist since the creation of this site(it has been two months) that does not call me a manipulator, misogynist or women hater.
      Thank You
      regards,
      J.Deus

  6. Jessica Jessica

    Your way of writing is just amazing.
    well written, i hope more men see the world like you.
    a question, are you single?

    • John Deus John Deus

      Jessica,

      Thank you for the compliment.

      I am single.

      Regards,
      J.Deus

  7. Avocando Avocando

    Man, i saw myself many times in this article!
    And i like it that you point out the truth about playing the victim and blame it on our physical characteristics. I ve always thought that girls can actually use us with sex cause we want it more. I can totally see reason in your arguments and i will try to “man up” a little and well as you mentioned try-fail-repeat. Keep on telling the truth in our faces even if it hurts eventually everybody will see it.

  8. jakim jakim

    i realy tried to go and talk to girls but after a month of “ew’s”, screaming, and girls being complete bitches i stoped, and i’m not even that ugly, im normal, maybe girls where i live are more difficult to aproach.

    • John Deus John Deus

      Jakim,

      No matter how difficult the girls are, no matter how ugly you are, girls will not reject you by screaming and/or saying ew.

      You are doing something wrong.
      You probably are coming to strong.
      Try approaching girls just asking about time or directions and advance slowly.

      Regards,
      J.Deus

  9. Chris Chris

    Yo John. Found this site today and gotta admit: holy crap you are useful as fk. I’ve been out of the game for quite some time and just started getting back in when I started to go University and have been unsuccessful to a large degree (90% fail rate) and Boy i could tell you my failure stories you’ve love all of them.

    Anyways mate god bless you buddy and your soul!

    • John Deus John Deus

      Chris,
      Thank you!

      • frank frank

        greetings. I consider myself normal looking. does that mean i will never get the above average girlfriend? AM i screwed?

  10. Truth Truth

    With most women being very high maintenance today, and very selfish just speaks for itself.

  11. Chris Chris

    So much swearing in one article, wow. Some very good points, but seems like way too much trouble to go through for a girl. Applying to NASA seems effortless.

    Good luck to all the guys trying to succeed, don`t give up 😉

    • TruthTeller TruthTeller

      Well if the women today were just like the good old fashioned women of years ago, we would’ve had one already since they were a lot Nicer back then.

    • vince vince

      Most girls are not “guyless” for long unless they choose to be. Therefore, this is not rocket science but more like the child’s game of “musical chairs.” Pay attention and adapt / react appropriately.

  12. Jaden Jaden

    Thank thats true. Pliz help me i may have the guts to approach a girl but i dont know what to say to her.

    • John Deus John Deus

      Hakuna Matata.

      One of my favourite openers 🙂

      it doesn’t matter, just go and talk to her.

      It is not what you say, it is the vibe behind it.

  13. savianna savianna

    Wow girls try to impress you even here! The guys are asking for your advices! You are a god in the eyes of the weak haha

    • John Deus John Deus

      Savianna,

      This is a community, we discuss and share, no one is trying to impress me.

      And no one here is ‘weak’.

      Regards,
      J.Deus

      • Bro, your response to Savianna just earned my respect. Your article is great!

  14. Pranjal Pranjal

    I really liked the article. You exactly know where to strike. Loved the way u explain things.

  15. Derek Derek

    I enjoyed this article and I agree

  16. Vitali Vitali

    And now I am really depressed.. I lived for so long in my imagined world. I just thought that I am fine and I just have to find that right girl for me..
    Any advise for 25 years old who is starting (finally) to see the truth, really wants to change, but feels that wasted too many years of his life?

    • John Deus John Deus

      25 years old, and you think you are old!

      when your cock looks like a turtle’s neck is when you are too old for this.
      before that,
      You have all the time to start.

      Just get things rolling, aim and go for it.

      • andrew andrew

        Hello there. I have concerns and confusions about my life. What i can interpret from this article is that it all boils down to this: work out(gym), make money (lots of it), work on one’s personality and humor. Right? I am 28 years old. I am working on all these EXCEPT the money making department and personality. I have wasted 6 years of my life. But i graduated with a BA degree. I have recently applied for an internal auditing certificate also to improve my CV to get recruited into one of those “big four” auditing companies. But the certificate requires that i need TWO MORE YEARS of training to acquire the DAMN certificate. Which means i will ONLY start working and start making money at the age of 30!!!!!! So that’s two more freakin’ pointless penniless years until i become financially independent and “financially attractive” to women. I consider myself average looking. I am worried that by the time i reach 30 my outer appearance will start to decline and my dating “market share” will shrink severely. I want to enjoy my life NOW!!!! NOT TWO YEARS FROM NOW!!! I don’t know what to do. I am 28 for god’s sake. I always wanted to date those super hot young women in their mid twenties. I can’t help it. I am only human. I like beauty. I mean sure inner beauty concerns me too. Every time i think about it, i feel so frustrated and having those suicidal thoughts. Everyone around me is having the women that they desire except for me. I also feel intimidated whenever i see those incredibly sexy girls shopping at the mall. i think to myself: why can’t i have a girl like that? she will never be interested in a guy like me who is unemployed and broke who doesn’t have a fancy car.What do i do? Any thoughts? thank you for your king attention.

        • vince vince

          Many of those girls are weird looking without their make-up… Look for someone with a good personality and be aware of signs that they are interested in you (glances, proximity, talkativeness, etc)
          Also, in 6 mos you can do quite a bit to improve your attractiveness . . . Learn guitar, a language, body build, martial arts, a self help blog, ballroom dancing, etc. (just 1-2 hrs a week)

  17. Febrian Febrian

    God man. you are the best thing for every guy like me how don’t have any experience with girls

  18. Bithole Bithole

    #11 You drive a Ford

  19. TheRealTruth TheRealTruth

    Well now that many women today are very high maintenance, independent, selfish, spoiled, and very greedy, would be an excellent reason.

  20. David David

    The only thing on this list that is remotely true for me is number 9. The only thing I think I’m (or anyone is) entitled to, after being kind to someone, is a “thank you.” On a side note, it still seems to me that even though I have no problems from your list or any others I have read, not one person wants to see/talk to me. This includes everything from people not replying to a text message, to me not being invited to family events. I’m starting to wonder if someone has done something where everyone in the world hates me, including my parents. John, if you have any advice on how to fix this solidarity I call a life, please help me.

    • Erik Erik

      Same, David.

      I’m almost 25 and have zero experience with women. For some reason, it just hasn’t happened for me. I’ve asked out women (both in real life and dating sites/apps) who seemed interested in me, but then they ended up either ghosting me..or giving excuse after excuse to not go out.

      Worst part is…my Mother assumes I’m gay. Even when I tell her that dating and being in a relationship simply hasn’t happened for me yet, she assumes I’m gay or extremely picky cause I should have been to get a girlfriend by now (almost treating it like property)..

      I think the worst part is even if you’re comfortable in your own skin and being single (which i am), everyone else assumes that there is something wrong with you.

      • vince vince

        Ur not gay but are you acting effeminate? Instead of waiting for things to happen, make it happen. Instead of asking, have them ask.

        • Erik Erik

          You’re saying not to act effeminate, but then you say to have them ask? Isn’t that a bit contradictory?

      • vince vince

        Like many women, your mother doesn’t listen well to you. They’re stuck on their own ideas of romantic dynamics that don’t work too well.

        That’s why you have to lead and be your own man. Be kind and compassionate to women but take their advice with a grain of salt…. And never let them lead in action or thoughts.

  21. sunny sunny

    Hey friends I am 28 but still not have girlfriend, tried so many times but unfortunately no one said YES. So I decided to live alone forever I think no one is made for me.

    • vince vince

      communication is not just the words we use.

  22. Neel Neel

    Hey bro loved your article…i am a good looking 17year old and im great with talking to women (yes women :p) just wana ask one thing why cant i keep the conversation going coz there are a hell lot of awkward silences
    any thoughts??
    Thnx for reading

  23. mickey mickey

    Wonderful article i loved it thanks men.

  24. So wait, how do I know all of this is not coming from a 45 year old man smoking out of a bong while playing WoW in his basement living with his mom?

    Is there evidence such as a study done in clinical trials to prove all of this works?

    • vince vince

      If most of what John Deus says don’t ring true for you (not self-evident for you) then you’re not connecting the dots or you’re using the strategy of “sorting by exception.”

      I’d advise you to stick to your own methods until you find a better one. (One well-tested using the scientific method by an accredited university)

    • Nice imagination. Check my instagram

      • A Fan A Fan

        Oh fuck you’re hilarious

  25. vicky vicky

    Hey I m 28 yrs old and i donot hav any girlfriend yet. After reading your articles i get to know the problems I am facing but the main problem i used to face is COMMUNICATION. I do not know what to talk. I don’t have topics to talk. People find me boring after a couple of meetings. I am struggling with this problem. Help me out!! plzzz..

  26. Screwitimgoinghome Screwitimgoinghome

    How offensive this article is.

  27. Suujit Chauhann Suujit Chauhann

    You nailed it buddy… Hell yeah you moved me and lately I realized I didn’t had balls to perform in front of girls…

  28. moh moh

    i’m 22 years old and i’m a good looking guy but i can’t have a girlfriend, it seems way complicated for me i realize i have lived in my own world since i was little that i missed a lot on stuff like this. i don’t have close friends not because no one will be friends with me, sometimes it seems too much work to maintain friendships! actually girls give me messages in social networks or give me hints but i always ignore them i feel like i’m not ready it would be too much work my life seems safe as it is damn i realize my problem as i write this! i think i have a depression or something i probably should see a psychiatrist my problem seems so deep and unsolvable. it’s like i’m avoiding real life. god!
    thanks for the article!

  29. Mike Mike

    Nice stuff. That’s what I was observing. Being stuck at Number 4 is such a bummer.

  30. Julian Julian

    Girls are funny. So empathetic, but mother nature is one tough bastard.

    Cause love is one thing, lust is something else. Much more primal and superficial, yet so fundamental.

    Make sure if you´re medicated and in a period of stress. Cause both Things can reduce your “contact” to your testosteron driven male nature.

    And that makes you signal tameness. You may still be able to fall in love, just in a more romantic way maybe..

    And many ladies will find you sweet if you write poems or something to them, but that can easily get you into the so called “friendzone” I know that all too well, i thought that i had find the woman of my life. But she seemed turned on by me, and we can´t be friends as we used too, because i have different feelings for her. We have many Things in common and have very good chemistry and communication i think, or i thought.

    Girls are funny indeet. But girls don´t like sad men, try to be the most confident and relaxed approached to your life as possible.. Things come when they come, you can´t really rush it.

  31. Mehmet Mehmet

    First off, a great post! Really helpful, you know what to say to make the reader think. ( It even worked on a non-englishman!)

    Currently I am 16 years old, but still see that the stuff what you wrote influenced me negatievly. Although I feel like I still have a long path infront of me, which might lay on my expectaions, and the fact that I would not approach a Girl which I would like, which can be because of my expectations, which I think are quite “rare” per say. Your thoughts? I will list them up briefly:

    -Same interests
    -Same political views
    -Similar activities
    -Good shape.

    I have the feeling that I overexceed with the expectations how you said, it is depending on “What you bring to the table” although there are so many girls out which are looking on the internet for partners ( I think relationship on the internet is bad btw) , so it cannot be that good looking girls with same interests are accepting only muscular billionaires.

    Your Thoughts?

    Greetings,
    Mehmet

  32. BestAnswer BestAnswer

    Well since so many women today that carry their greed and selfishness wherever they go certainly explains it why many of us good men Don’t have a girlfriend, and since so many women have their Careers today which many of them will Never go with a man that makes much less money than they do since they want the Best and will Never settle for Less.

  33. Eddy Eddy

    Bit too strongly worded(holy shit that’s a lot of projections), but the article is well written. First time came across here.

  34. Pooter Pooter

    Now let me write an asinine article on why you don’t have a boyfriend.

  35. Someguy Someguy

    A couple of things.
    1: Unconditional love DOES exist. Nuff said.
    2: Nice guys DO exist. I know this cause I am one. I genuinely care for people and try to put others before myself. That sure sounds nice to me. I believe that there are people out there who are nice and kind just to be nice and kind without expecting anything in return.

    • Gone Gone

      Love to have some same thoughts as me.

  36. juan juan

    Reduce watching pornography also . Just one more reality check. It increases high expectations. (Experience)

  37. Junior Junior

    I think,She hates me because she didn’t.like my way to propose her..i just told her that i need her ,in different way..
    What should i do to regain her??

  38. Lon Spector Lon Spector

    Nope. It’s ALL ASTROLOGY! The “Love-shy” guy said that. (Glickman.)
    It’s to complicated to go into now, but I can attest to that as a 58 year old
    virgin.

  39. Eyvore Eyvore

    I approve of this message.

  40. Lon Spector Lon Spector

    With Saturn in the 5th house of pleasure, square Moon a guy has two chances
    to get sex: SLIM & NONE! Though I MIGHT have a chance in a graveyard.
    Google the song “Strange Things Happen In This World,” by Dickey Lee.

  41. Soldeir of fortune Soldeir of fortune

    Hello I live in Israel and the mentality of the girl here is diffrent, Here girl only respond to those stupid catch frases. I am a direct person when I want somthing from someone i say it directly. How can i br direct( about sex) and not be consided a creep or a pervert?

    Thank you in advnce)

  42. Rifak Ahamed Rifak Ahamed

    one of the best article that i have ever read

  43. Witchman Witchman

    You curse too much and your grammar is poor.
    I stopped reading your article due to this..

    • Real Nigga Real Nigga

      Well if you cared to read more of his content you will find out that his his English is not the best seeing how he’s from somewhere else where English is not the common language.

  44. jonathan jonathan

    What is this supposed to do? I’m 24,never had sex or a girlfriend and this is just another useless article. A complete waste of my time. Thx.

    • Maybe this lame attitude of yours is why you never had sex or a girlfriend.

      • jonathan jonathan

        Yeah saying I have a lame attitude doesn’t make this post anymore useful or appealing. Nothing but a mess of arrogant vomit that is not even remotely applicable. Just do this and do that like a thousand of these other Fuckboy posts on here. Dirty dishwater. I did learn one thing though, that going about it the way you did obviously turns someone into a complete and utter asshole. This is not a post for a man, this is a post for a male with a highschool mentality. Again, there is nothing essential about your post, just surface talk and bullshit cliché rhetoric that just washes off on the thousands of us like rain on leather. Thank you for your time.

        • I feel sorry for you, I really do. I could only help until a certain point, but when someone is blinded by hate and anger, no one can really help them. If a free post on the Internet that no one forced you to read and you payed absolutely nothing for caused you all this anger, if someone is so easily moved and disturbed, do you think anyone would really want to be with or around them?. At this point, after all the hate and anger you just displayed, my life will go on the way it was, and I pretty much love my life, but how will your life be?

          • jonathan jonathan

            Ah! So much hypocrisy in one world. Lol I am not upset at all, you just took it that way. Just as how some people would see your post as “to much brutal reality” but….you didn’t mean it that way. You see you didn’t write this for anybody else or to actually help people. You wrote this for egotistical self righteous gains and subtle degradation of all those “who did not make it to the end of your post” lmao! You are really a coward because you cater to the typical feminist selfish demon they call the American woman. You will practically bend over backwards for these whores while authentic men have stayed completely true to who they are. I hate your species. You should go kill yourself along with all your other little ignorant henchmen worshipping your cock in the comment section. By the way, if you have made it to the end of this post without leaving, my hat is off to you. Regards
            J.smith.

          • Jonathn honey, you can’t say you are not upset and then go on saying you hate my species-am I alien now?- and I should kill myself… That is quite much the definition of being upset with someone.most of your comment doesn’t make any sense, I would assume that you are one of those Guys who do not really understand the RedPill teaching and only feed on the hate there. I have never been to the US and don’t think I will go there anytime soon. No one is worshiping my cock thankfully, that would be really awkward. And authentic men staying true to who they are? Really? Did you write that with a serious face?

            I guess I do take my daily does of ego boost from my real life, I did achieve a life I will be proud of to the day I die, writing articles using a fake faceless name online is not that effective to be honest.

            Listen man, don’t respond to this comment, there is no point in dragging this conversation. But really take a couple of minutes tonight and ask yourself why would you spend time and energy to write a hate fueled comment on some random blog? Why didn’t you just close the page and moved on?
            Do it, maybe because you think I am a gigantic asshole and I deserve to know that, if that was your answer, I am sorry, but well, you can always not read my blog and you will be fine. But really ask yourself that, and maybe just maybe you will discover that I touched on one of your soft spots, maybe I touched on something that you lied to yourself about for so long and somehow I pointed out that lie to you and that was what made you so furious.

  45. Darius Darius

    It’s all about fucked up wrong believes we get from an English speaking culture. No other culture has so many issues with opposite genders. If you travel overseas you find lots of women who would be interested in you regardless of any of the above.

    • Everyone view their own culture as the difficult one and all the others are much easier. People here in Jordan think that sex is just a given in western societies and their society is pretty damn hard, but they are wrong, and you are also wrong. it is just that you have a deeper understanding or misunderstanding of your culture and pure speculations about other cultures, and that cause your behaviour to change when you go somewhere else, that’s why people get laid the most when they travel. it is limiting believes vs. wrong but useful assumptions. Seduction and sexual behaviour is part of the human speicies, just like eating, people may eat differently in different cultures, but they still eat.

  46. Josh Josh

    Freaking Amazing.
    I agree with everything except for the “I have nothing going on for me” part, I believe I have allot that is good going on.

    You see I’d have had a relationship by now (Im 20) if I wasn’t so shy. I know that girls aren’t as scary to talk to as I think, but its just really, really, really and at the risk of sounding redundant really hard to talk to girls I like.

    I’ve ruined more than one promising relationship with, if I may say very beautiful girls. I’ve since gotten a little better at talking to girls, but my main problem is actually finding something to say after the words ” Hi how are you?”. And my futile attempts have all ended in embarasment or me having to walk away in awkward silence.

    I’ve read similar posts to yours before but you just shouted it out there and I’ll try to remember some of it. So thanks!

  47. As If It Matters As If It Matters

    Do you really have to engage in such ridiculous hyperbole with the common gamer sterotypes? If you think that people who like video games can’t get a girlfriend then you are in for a rude awakening. Please explain to me how it is a crime for a gamer to seek a girlfriend.

    • Why don’t you please explain to me first where the fuck did I say that?
      Just because I mentioned that someone has nothing going on for him in his life other than a WOW tournament you made the assumption that I am attacking gamers?
      Being a gamer doesn’t mean that you can’t have a girlfriend, but if it is the only thing you do, chances are, you will not do good with girls.
      It eats away everything attractive in you if you spend your whole time sitting in front of a computer moving virtual objects with minimal hand movements.

  48. Jez Jez

    Thanks John, i really needed to read this today. It’s been a bad week for me as I have tuition fees and rent due next week & I can’t afford it. I have the confidence, bold personality & plenty of humour. (Her friend said this) but i worry that I am not good enough for her because I can’t take her on the dates, give her the gifts and treat her like i think she deserves. There is a mutual attraction there but the lack of finance situation embarrasses me as a man.

    Hopefully once Xmas holidays are over with and things are looking up for me/my finances……I can make a move. What do you think?

    Cheers.

  49. Abraham Abraham

    I feel like I can approach any girl just after reading this article, thanx

  50. Alex Alex

    What do you say to a guy who has approached girls his entire life, asked out over 200 different girls,tried everything he can think of, flirting, being nice, every trick, is a decent looking guy, has things going for him, doesn’t give 2 shits what other people think of him and knows he is good enough for girls, but has lost most of his confidence because he is 20 year old kid who has asked out 200 girls and has been rejected BY EVERY SINGLE ONE.

    I literally have no idea what works and what doesn’t work with chicks, quite frankly I appreciate the article man, and I agree with everything you say, just be yourself and that is enough, problem is what do you do when you keep getting told yourself isn’t good enough for girls?

    I didn’t sit on my ass and mope after HS, i got bullied all my life and changed my life around, lost a bunch of weight, got in shape, and made a name for myself, but I don’t offer much in terms of a ton of friends and life experience because of my past, perhaps that is why I haven’t gotten a girl, idk, kind of hard to get them when you aren’t very experienced in that arena and can’t get that experience cause you can’t get to 1st base, let alone even get into the darn stadium.

  51. Adam Adam

    I am 32 and never had a girlfriend. I have made an effort to put myself out there, ask women out, take care of myself and keep in good shape, worked hard in obtaining my education and dream career, and surround myself with good friends and loving family. I have also followed the 10 points in your conclusion (more/less). I do not come off as desperate despite the effort I put into finding someone, nor do I approach this in a negative way despite always facing rejection, or face fear in being rejected by the next girl. I know how great it would feel having a companion to enjoy my laughs and life with.

    Do you have any other advice/input you can provide? Feel free to ask any questions you have.

  52. Lon Spector Lon Spector

    Well, you’ll just have to get “lucky.”
    It’s no coincidence that sex is in the 5th house of the Astrological chart.
    Gambling, creativity, and children are also in the 5th house.
    “Sex” is a gamble (Feelings, even physical safety) that MIGHT produce
    children (At least in the “ancient world’ before birth control was perfected.)
    Guys like us WOULD have died out. We are a waste of skin, without (sexual) hope.
    Unless you can see value in living despite that fact you’re never going to get laid
    it’s best to do yourself in, in the most painless way possible. (Booze and pills or Carbon Monoxide.)

  53. John Doe John Doe

    It is the type of women nowadays out there that are to blame.

  54. Lon Spector Lon Spector

    People have prefrences. We can’t do anything about that.
    You just have to decide if life is worth living whether you get the girl or not.

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