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How To Change Your Life: Your Makeover Guide

How To Change Your Life

How To Change Your Life?

Until when are you going to live a semi life?

How long do you want to stay unhappy?

What are you waiting for? what is holding you back?

Do you want to be someone better?    

Or just keep on making excuses? 

Do you want to try new things in your life? 

Or just master playing WOW for the rest of your life? 

Do You Want To Know How To Change Your Life?



To begin with, I have to clarify one misconception a lot of people fall for.

that misconception is wanting to change.
You have failed times before trying to change because basically, you can’t “change”.
And that is because you can’t truly and clearly define yourself, to change it.

Instead, you should be aiming to improve yourself.

Yes, clearly everyone has something they want to change, an old habit or a behavior.
You shouldn’t look at it as something you want to erase and replace, instead, you should view it as a step by step process to adding the good and removing the bad.

How To Change Your Life

After we got that out of the way, let’s start off  with the right way of approaching self-improvement.

Do you want to improve?
Do you like to improve?

FUCK NO! you should be obsessed, you should be crazy about improving.

That Is How To Change Your Life!

And how can you achieve that?

Simply, hit rock bottom!

For most of you, you live in a situation that is not bad enough. Apparently you are reading this from the comfort of your home. So your survival instinct is not going all crazy now.  You’re stuck in a limbo – your survival isn’t directly threatened, and so you never get that burst of life or death motivation.

The worst thing is, in today’s comfortable, secure world, your survival will probably never be seriously threatened. 

You are just not that happy, and not being happy won’t kill you.

Your best solution is … to hit rock bottom, to fool yourself, to actually convince yourself that it can’t get any worse than this, To get your instinct involved.

Believe me, if you continue living like this, if you live life stumbling around in the pathetic mediocrity.
You will eventually hit rock bottom, you will not like it, and at worst, it would be too late to do anything.
Rock bottom comes in all forms and shapes,

You might realize it seconds before blowing your brain up with a 9mm.
You might realize it after you wake up hungover and full of piss and vomit.
You might realize it while walking into a prison cell for doing some stupid shit.

That is one way of hitting rock bottom.but it is better to take yourself there willingly.

To do that…

Take a full day for yourself… a Sunday or whatever. turn off your cell phone and sit by yourself in a room. if you drink or smoke get your favorites, a bottle of whiskey and some cigarettes will do.

Start drinking by yourself… get really fucking drunk it doesn’t really matter… but focus on why your life sucks. Why you’re living a miserable pathetic life, get all out… all the memories all the regrets.
get it all fucking out… fell the pain, the shame, the anger, the jealousy… indulge fully in it.

Think about the girls you never had the balls to approach. Think about everything you regret not doing.
Think about all the years you wasted, think about all the things you missed on.
Think about how you’re a fucking loser. Think about how you got nothing.
Remember every time you failed. every time you were scared. every time you were rejected. every time you were bullied.
Cry actual tears if you can, because, for you, this is it.

The last tears I will cry over how pathetic I am, after today, it is fucking over.

THIS IS YOUR LIFE.  YOU FUCKING HATE IT.
AND YOU WILL FUCKING CHANGE IT! 

How To Change Your Life!

After wallowing in your own tears and depression, wake up and have a cold shower… shave, brush your teeth and wear the nicest clothes you have. put on some nice cologne and feel like a million bucks. get some fine cigars if you can, blast your favorite music and start your day.

How To Change Your Life

Focus on your past, whatever it was, whether you were a rockstar or a nerd… let it go.
let it go completely… it doesn’t matter, if you fucked Angelina Jolie while Brad Pitt was filming, it doesn’t matter the past is the past. 

Whether it was a glorious or a painful, shameful past. NOW, your past is gone.

Your past will bring you back to that shitty frame that you were holding.
You are framed by your past to behave in a certain way, as long as you hold your past.. you will always behave the same.

Your old friends, your family, they will drag you back un-knowingly to that old you.
They expect things from you, they expect you to behave in a certain way. most of them will do it

Most of them will do it without realizing, they won’t be fighting the improved you, they will be expecting your old self.

But some will try to drag you down knowingly, they will poison you to stay the same and not break the shackles of mediocrity.
You have to let them go, with your past. 

I would recommend minimizing content to a minimum with everyone for the first couple of weeks. after that, cut off completely those who want to poison you and drag you down, those who do nothing
but to be an extra weight in the race of life. cut them lose… and make no apology for it..
This is your fucking life.

After getting your vision cleared, after getting on track, Start owning life the hard way.
Start grinding and hustling for everything you ever wanted… money, girls, status, travel the world.
whatever it is, cut the crap and start working.
NO! there won’t be any instant gratification… your not a fucking dog, you don’t get a treat after doing the right thing.
This is life, and it is the way it is, you need to put on hard work… But there is no chance that putting some serious hard work won’t pay off.

ZERO fucking chance

Do you remember that guy that always try hard to do something but it never works out?
It is because he is either not trying hard enough or giving up way too soon… get the idea of some lucky people make it in this life and others waste their effort for nothing out of your mind, your effort will never go for nothing.

That is just a pathetic fucking excuse made by mediocre people who are too afraid of going
out of their filthy comfort zone.

Get real, work hard, strive and you will get what you want.

The answer to How To Change Your Life is HARD FUCKING WORK!

And for gods sake cut the bullshit.. whatever you want to do
there is enough information on the net that covers it completely for free.
You have this blog and a thousand other telling you how to get this and that…
start fucking reading, go get some books.. start googling how to do and Y.

Hit the gym, even if you don’t want a nice body, which is impossible, it is another
way of rationalizing your pathetic lazy ass.

Hit the gym, nothing teaches discipline like the gym.
stop existing as a mere entity and start fucking living.

Can you make the world different just by existing in it?

Or will you be just like the billions of people
dead and are forgotten.
Live for something greater, a dream that only you can see, and devote EVERYTHING to it,
and life will be there for you.

Or fucking keep on being a pathetic lazy fuck….
Just don’t post and nag on this website or any other website on how some people are just lucky and the rest aren’t meant to have it…

That was it Gentlemen, How To Change Your Life!

Share the Wisdom. 

John Deus

 

11 Comments

  1. Sergio Sergio

    Great post.

    • John Deus John Deus

      Thanks

  2. ariell ariell

    ❤ Great read.

  3. hamill hamill

    i only started reading this blog today, and i swear i am getting man boners about how real this shit is, fuck yeah

  4. supremacy_fan supremacy_fan

    words of wisdom. I’m just discovering this great blog. definitly in my bookmarks.
    As men we must take care of our lives. our grand-fathers lived a very hard life, full of pain and disease, some of them went to war and had to deal with death of comrades in a daily basis.
    we’re the first generation with no major war, with easy life, good and comfortable homes.. and a huge amont of free time. yet the majority of us do nothing to make impact in this world.
    they’re many challenges who are coming.. big enough to destroy nations and people because they are global. as men we should be concerned about the futur of our nations.
    by writing those articles, the author of this blog is doing his duty. let’s do ours.

  5. Wellington Dusty Osleado Wellington Dusty Osleado

    thanks John Deus. You’ve given me an appreciation for sadness and hardship. That’s priceless.

  6. Neel Neel

    Thanks a lot john just what I needed ASAP…. All my life I was looking for a reason a situation or any thing that would make me get up and start working to change me life…it turns out that such things never happen I read all your blogs top to bottom and it gave me the courage to become a real man…
    Regards..

  7. Fuck you maaan! This post is fuckin mind blowing!! Greatest post ever including the one on death! Thanks for just hitting us hard!!!

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