Seduction Movies: 5 Movies That Will Improve Your Game!
To start off, you guys know how much I oppose the idea of mimicking any character in a movie, mainly because.. well, it is a movie, and it is never ever like the real life!
But, sometimes a good movie might boost your confidence and suave. Mainly affecting your body language.
Think of the last time you watched a bond movie or any movie with a badass main character. How your awareness went down to your body and your speech pattern changed. How you got a slight “high” from feeling like a badass.
This temporary shot of badass self-awareness with a tiny bit of perspective on how seduction art should look like is almost all you can take out of movies.
But you shouldn’t try to mimic or copy a certain character exact body-language, line or speech pattern. It will feel creepy, awkward and fake. Unless you are a super newbie and have no clue on how anything works, do not exact copy anything from the fictional universe of movies.
These over the top smooth and funny pickups that you see in movies will rarely, RARELY ever happen.
Even if you got enough balls to copy what someone said or did in a movie, the thing is, pulling something so over the top will freak out the girl and she will not know how to react.
Bummer, I know.
Still, I sometimes pull this kind of funny lines or gestures knowing that the overall pickup will not work, but I do it for the self-amusement.
Anyway, here are my top 5 seduction art movies that I think are useful and entertaining to watch.
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Starting with the list in no particular order.
1- Let The Game Begin.
Tripp is an average frustrated chump, who comes up with a golden idea. He partners with Gary, a Wall Street wheeler and dealer, and brings his cousin, Rowan, onboard to help with his business. As Tripp and Rowan journey together for business, Tripp learns about Rowan’s extraordinary skills in attracting women. The duo realizes that business and relationships today have a lot in common. Tripp learns Rowan’s game and begins closing on business deals. But the problem is, Tripp is married. As the business grows to be worth millions, Tripp realizes that there are many players around him who want a piece of the gold. He must decide to either fight for the gold, or find love, with his new-found knowledge of the game. (IMDB LINK)
I have heard once that this movie is influenced by Neil Strauss book Rules of the Game. If you haven’t read that book I highly recommend you to go read it. That book is the holy bible of the PUA Community. The problem with this movie is that it is a very routine based type of gaming, meaning that it teaches you how to open using certain lines, how to hook a girl into your conversation and how to DHV. The movie teaches you to do all that in a conscious process, like you should do this first and then that and so on.
These are the teaching of the old PUA community, the teaching of following a single simplified formula to appear and mask yourself as a cool guy. Now these routines and techniques DO WORK, and as a newbie they are definitely the place for you to start, so if you are super new to this, I would recommend that you get yourself a copy of the book, read it and then watch the movie. But this surely is against my philosophy on Game, and how it should be an extension of how you are rather a copy of something that is proven to work. Both approaches will get you laid, but only one will expand your life in other ways.
What To Take From This Movie:
As I said, if you are new to this, then this movie is basically what you need along with the book (The Game). It is OK to use some of the lines and follow some of the techniques in there to start off your path into supreme seduction, but this should only be the first step of the journey, regardless of how much success it will bring you, you should grow out of it at some point and incorporate who you truly are more into the picture.
The movie offers some great openers, great body language examples and some useful pickup techniques that will get you laid mostly in bars and clubs. It also offers some perspective on the similarities between Game and Business. This Movie clearly illustrates how you can ‘seduce’ someone into doing what you want regardless of their gender or background. They actually over simplify the matter, but nevertheless, it gives some valid points.
2- Roger Dodger.
Roger Swanson is a hopelessly cynical advertising copywriter with a razor-sharp wit who believes he has mastered the art of manipulating women. But Roger’s seemingly foolproof world of smooth talk and casual sex begins to unravel when he is paid a surprise visit by his teenage nephew, Nick. Hoping to settle the issue of his virginity, Nick begs Roger to school him in the art of seducing women. Welcoming the challenge, Roger guides Nick through the city’s wild nightlife for an all-night crash course, only to realize that he–the adult–still has something to learn about what women, and men, really want.(IMDB LINK)
You have to be very careful watching this movie because it has some serious dark tone to it. The main character is very serious, needy and somehow an emotional mess, and that is clearly leaking out of him all along the movie. I hate the seriousness that the main character has towards game and seduction. And how he approaches relationships with women as a clear action for reward process while not enjoying the stunning vibe of interacting with the feminine.
What To Take From This Movie:
You shouldn’t mimic the main character at all due to his very serious and dark tone in the movie, but still, the movie provides a different outlook on how seduction looks and feels like when it is done for the sole purpose of getting fast pussy. The good bits of the movie revolves around handling bullshit from other males, coming out with quick solutions to seemingly complicated problems on the spot, groundedness and maintaining frame all the time regardless of the shit-show going around you. This movie also offers one of the best perspectives on persistence in game and going for what you want while hammering through the obstacles.
In Manhattan, the British limousine driver Alfie is surrounded by beautiful women, most of them clients, and he lives as a Don Juan, having one night stands with all of them and without any sort of commitment. His girlfriend and single-mother Julie is quite upset with the situation and his best friends are his colleague Marlon and his girlfriend Lonette. Alfie has a brief affair with Lynette, and the consequences of his act force Alfie to reflect and wonder about his lifestyle.(IMDB LINK)
There is no actual game going on in this movie, all his results are due to being the sexy Jude Law that he is and having an occupation that provides one of the easiest environments for seduction and offers an endless supply of new glamours women.
What To Take From This Movie:
As I said, there isn’t much Game going on around the main character, he is relying on very situational opportunities, yet,out of his abundance and cool lifestyle, the main character has this ice cold vibe to him most of the time, he also has an amazing calmness when he handles his problems. The movie also offers some perspective on how life looks like when you are at a level where you can get any girl anywhere and how you kinda get dragged through that addiction while discarding the bigger picture of your actions.
4- Crazy, Stupid, Love.
A middle-aged husband’s life changes dramatically when his wife asks him for a divorce. He seeks to rediscover his manhood with the help of a newfound friend, Jacob, learning to pick up girls at bars.(IMDB LINK)
Due to it being mainstream, the film is very romanticized in the old fairytale ways, but the process of male-makeover that the main character goes through is eye opening. The womanizer Jacob (Played by Ryan Gosling) is a top notch player. Many of his scenes doing pickup are done in a way that makes the seduction happens due to his confidence and personality rather than his looks. I wish that the casting crew would have cast a not so good looking character to play his role because this way they just further crafted the idea of how a womanizer would look like. If they have had an average looking guy to play his role, this film would’ve been a school material film for anyone wanting to learn game. Nevertheless, ignore Goslings looks and try to learn from what he has to offer.
What to take from this film:
Oh, so many things, up until the last 20 minutes where everything goes back to the standard Rom\Com textbook material.
Jacob, the womanizer in the movie, has what a real player should have, from body language, vocal tonality, ability to merge sets, handling groups and clearly stating his intentions. The male makeover part is also really good for anyone who is a bit lost on the fashion card. You can also mix this movie with some more tips from AlphaM Youtube Channel to get more ideas on how to be properly presentable as a man.
In short, this movie will show you how to successfully present yourself as a top notch man, with a little bit of actual game and social dynamics in play.
5- Van Wilder.
Van Wilder is a guy who has been at his college for seven years. He spends most of his time throwing parties and “fund raisers”. When his father decides that it’s time for tough love, he doesn’t pay his tuition. So Van becomes a professional party thrower. At the same time, Gwen who writes for the college paper is tasked with doing a story on him, but Van is too busy partying to do that. So she writes it using info from people who talk about him and writes an unflattering piece, which doesn’t make him happy. He then dares her to see if she can get the true story but is more interested in trying to score with her, which is not easy because she has a boyfriend, who is a snob, and who is not too happy with the amount time she is spending with him. So he tries to get rid of him. (IMDB LINK)
What to take from this film:
Van Wilder is the only character in this list of movies that I would support to mimic him if you are at the point where you need a complete outlook on how a guy who is really good with girls.
In reality, Van Wilder will get more pussy than James Bond. Imagine That!
What makes Van Wilder so freakishly cool is his constancy through the whole movie. His humor, his frame of mind and his actions are always aligned and always going the same way. He might be perceived as a bit of a flat character and lack depth, and guess what.. You do not need depth of character to get laid like crazy. This statement probably negates many many articles on seduction were gurus swear that depth of character and passion and purpose and etc are very important in seduction… it is not!
For being the king of the hookups, the less of those you have the better because girls will hallucinate that you are so deep that you seem this shallow… Yup, that is how it goes, that is the secret of the asshole, article on that soon.
Back to the movie, watch it, and try to see how Van Wilder has a flat non-flashy kind of game, he is just cool, knows a lot of people, do not need anything from anyone, always brings the party with him, and make college his bitch.
This is the Go-To movie if you are in or going to attend college.
So these are the five movies that I think would drastically improve your game.
I will probably recommend more movies in the future but for now, these are what I can think of.
A couple of honorable mentions:
The closest perspective on how actual game looks like is the infields from the RSD Guys, I am not sure 100% that all of them are genuine interaction, but a good percentage of them are definitely legit.
Some other characters that are good to study in hopes of improving your social skill and game are charlie sheen in Two And A Half Men, especially the early seasons, and The character of Barney Stinson in How I Met Your Mother, even though I believe that he tend to be more of a clown than an actual player, yet his humor is admirable.
Enjoy the shows, and do not forget to go crush it outside!
Try, fuck up and learn from your mistakes.